Tag: lgbtqia

What about making Pride accessible to LGBTQ minors?

pervocracy:

They can’t access it if there are half-naked people?  When I was a LGBTQ minor, that was my favorite part!

…Okay, that can’t be my whole answer, but I do think it’s an important thing to point out that you shouldn’t extrapolate “it’s illegal for people under 18 to view porn” all the way out to “it’s harmful/distressing/unacceptable for people under 18 to be exposed to sexuality in any form.”  Assuming people aren’t literally having sex on parade floats, stuff can be pretty raunchy and still be, y’know, PG-13.

I also don’t really have all the answers here, and like I said, I’m not 100% on the side of dicks-out explicitness in Pride.  There are a lot of competing needs.  I just want to point out that they are competing, not matters where there’s one obvious ethical path.

Also, a lot of Pride festivals have all-ages events. Fair Day is a big deal in the Sydney Mardi Gras program. It’s during daylight hours, in a public park, and is specifically aimed at families and other community members who want to attend a big event that is more like a market or a town show or state fair than a night club. There is face painting, prizes for costumes, dozens of stalls, it’s dog friendly, and there are lots of participation events and music suitable for everyone. If what you want is rated G, in a lot of places, you are catered for already. It’s not the purpose of Pride to sanitise the community for children. That’s an argument that has been used by pearl-clutchers and bigots for generations. If you don’t think the full gamut of Pride is something you’re old enough to see, then don’t. It’s not Pride’s responsibility to make it kid-friendly. It’s a celebration of culture that includes sexuality and gender without shame or censorship. That’s what’s important – that kids who come to their first Pride see that there’s nothing to be afraid or ashamed of. They shouldn’t come to Pride and see another closet.

ace-artemis-fanartist:

Happy Asexual Awareness Week! Here are some canon a-spec ladies of lit.

Felicity Montague: The Gentleman’s Guide to Vice and Virtue. Author confirmation.

Ling Chan: The Diviners.

Sandrilene Fa Toran: Circle of Magic. Author confirmation.

Nancy: Every Heart a Doorway.

Keladry of Mindelan: Protector of the Small. Author confirmation on aro rep. Author confirmation on ace rep.

Natalie Oscott: The Tropic of Serpents.

I didn’t know about Keladry or Sandry that is SO EXCITING

evitcani-writes:

transmaskopi:

Being trans is not a new, trendy thing. Trans people have always existed.

Dr Alan L Hart was born in Kansas in 1890. He was assigned female at birth, but started presenting and living his life as a boy at a young age. In 1917/1918 he was the first trans man to go through GCS in America. After the procedure, he changed his legal name. Shortly thereafter he married his first wife, Inez Hart. They separated and divorced a few years later and in 1925 Alan married his second wife, Edna Ruddick, to whom he was married until his death. After the second world war, synthetic testosterone became available and Alan started HRT. Alan dedicated his life to helping people. He was a medical doctor and radiologist and he put much time into researching tuberculosis and collecting money for people who could not afford treatment themselves. He died of heart failure in 1962. His body was cremated and spread over Puget Sound.

This is excellent trans history, but Hart did not come from an unsupportive family! Him being a boy was not really an issue at the time. To quote:

“Hart wrote later, in 1911, of his happiness during this time, when he was free to present as male, playing with boys’ toys made for him by his grandfather. His parents and grandparents largely accepted and supported his gender expression, though his mother described his “desire to be a boy” as “foolish.” His grandparents’ obituaries, from 1921 and 1924, both list Hart as a grandson.”

Even growing up, Hart rarely faced resistence for his transition. Even while attending college, he had professors who indexed his medical degree under his chosen name despite needing to issue it under his legal name (which was Lucille at the time).

Most people simply did not know Hart was trans unless he told them. He was sadly outed as trans in Oregon in a local paper by a former classmate. This motivated him to get marry his first wife and move back home so all his friends knew he was ashamed of nothing and quite happy.

Unfortunately, the strain of financial insecurity weighed on his marriage and his first wife left him. He married his second wife (who he was with until he passed) the same year he divorced his first.

Hart found his way into tuberculosis research regarding radiology. Without his techniques, tuberculosis would have continued to be a devastating disease. Hart saved the lives of thousands of people, most of whom could previously not afford to be screened and advanced radiology as viable and cheap.

He also stopped the stigma sorrounding the disease in its tracks. Tuberculosis was once akin to a veneral disease, but Hart insisted his clinics and treatments be referred to as “chest clinics” and “chest treatments” so his patients would not face ostrasization for seeking help.

It would be remiss to not acknowledge that Hart was an important figure in medical history who truly cared about people.

Even today, Hart is still helping people! After his death, Hart’s wife Edna did what he wished and established their estate to gain interest. That interest is given to leukemia research every year (Hart’s mother died of leukemia).

He said in a speech to a class of graduating medical students:

“Each of us must take into account the raw material which heredity dealt us at birth and the opportunities we have had along the way, and then work out for ourselves a sensible evaluation of our personalities and accomplishment.”