Hooking my way into 2018. Going to the yarn store yesterday 20 mins before closing was a GOOD IDEA because I’m no longer destroying my hands and I’m 22 rows into Mini Rings of Change (which may turn into the massive paid version if my yarn stocks and patience hold out). So yeah, starting 2018 by redirecting self-harming stims and crocheting a massive fuck-off rainbow doily that may in the end cover our whole double bed.

*devil horns* I know how to ring the changes, peeps. Rock on.

candidlyautistic:

Hi friends!

My name is Samantha, and I am
asking for your help. I’m facing student loan repayments that could halt my
academic work studying the social psychology of autistic culture. If you’d like
to help or learn what it’s like to be disabled, autistic, and in college, keep
reading!

About Me

I’m an autistic woman double
majoring in psychology and sociology. Advocacy work for the autistic community
is my greatest passion. My hope is that as an autistic myself, I can introduce
the broader perspective of the autistic community into the study of autism. I
want to fill the holes left by other researchers. I want to ask the hard
questions and study overlooked topics from a sociology perspective.

But now I need our
community’s help.

Here’s what happened

Last semester my autoimmune
disease flared, my chemotherapy failed, and that left me unable to leave the
house for classes. At the worst point of the semester I could not leave my bed.
I failed every course for the semester. Not because my work was bad, not
because I couldn’t study, but because my health held me prisoner. My student
advisor is helping me retroactively medically withdraw from my classes, but
academia moves slowly when it comes to fixes and very quickly when it comes to
payment deadlines.

The school returned $1600 to
the loan company and added that sum as a $1600 debt on my student account. This
means that I cannot return to school until the debt is fully paid.

I learned about this by an
automatic email sent after the school closed for the holidays. Not exactly the
present I asked Santa for this year.

A medical withdraw fixes the
debt, but it takes months to process.

In the meantime, I have until January 14th to pay the hold or I will not be able to attend school. I
just don’t have $1600.

And that’s why I’m reaching
out to you now.

How You Can Help

I have no idea if I can raise
this money in two weeks. I’m terrified of not being able to.

But now that we have a working treatment for my disorder, I have to try. Will you
try with me?

PayPal donations can be made
to candidlyautistic@gmail.com. At this point, donation websites will take
to long to transfer funds.

Here’s my promise to you: I
will be transparent with donations, replying in the comments of this post with
a running tally of donations. Any help is appreciated.

Sincerely and Gratefully,

Samantha

Click here to support Help me pay rent for January!

storyinmypocket:

storyinmypocket:

I’ve gotten a $30 donation from one person (so many thanks, you know who you are), and I still need help.

I do want to take a moment to thank all the people who helped me out when I was offering tarot readings. (Also, if this ever reaches the person I didn’t reply to, I’m so sorry, I accidentally deleted your ask when trying to make my reply not public, please send another ask, because for the life of me I can’t remember your username.) You’ve been great, and if I hadn’t gotten sick last week, missed a lot of work due to vomiting uncontrollably, and had to pay for a doctor visit and an even larger amount of (expensive) meds than expected, I’d have a much smaller target goal right now. If you’ve helped me out already, please don’t feel like I’m asking for more from you – a signal boost would be great, but you’ve seriously done enough already.

$90! Thanks so much, everyone!

Click here to support Help me pay rent for January!

I get that you’re young, but queer isn’t a slur and don’t reblog my damn posts with “q slur”, please. My identity is not a slur. Thinking queer is a slur is ahistoric bullshit.

kinasty:

vaspider:

lauralot89:

deepfriedfuckpotato:

onioncourse:

deepfriedfuckpotato:

outpace-and-outlive-you:

Lmfao what the fuck are you on?? Q*eer was originally used to refer to trans and sga people BY CISHETS to refer to us as abnormal and wrong. It’s a fucking slur. If you choose to use a slur as your only personal identifier then yes, your identity is a God damn slur. This is so disrespectful to every lgbt person with trauma surrounding that word, and you’re the one who’s being ahistorical. Asshole.

I’m on education that came from somewhere other than tumblr, my dude.

We’ve been calling ourselves queer since before WWII. It was not originally used “by cishets”. It was used by us. To describe us. Interchangeably with gay, which was used by all genders.

Ten years before you were born, Queer Nation was fighting for rights you now enjoy, marching in the streets. Queer Nation was founded by members of ACT UP (AIDS Coalition to Unleash Power), an organization for AIDS advocacy, because we were literally dying in the streets. Which is where die-ins came from, by the way – during the AIDS crisis when hospitals wouldn’t touch us with a ten foot pole, people protested by literally dying in a place inconvenient for the powers that be.

Whoever “taught” you that queer is a slur and always has been lied to you.

We’re still here, we’re still queer, go educate yourself.

If you can’t give me sources on q*eer being used by lgbt people BEFORE they reclaimed it from cishets using it as a slur i really don’t care what you have to say

Wow sorry about your inability to use google. If the internet is too hard, you could try picking up a book at your local library!!!! Like, how about My Queer War by James Lord or 

Coming Out Under Fire: The History of Gay Men and Women in World War II by Allan Berube?

From  George Chauncey, “Gay New York,” page 10

This is so painful to read, honestly. 

Kids, learn your own queer history. Our identity was our word first

must be nice to be 17 and know absolutely everything about queer history ever

@kinasty As a seventeen queer-questioning kid I was mad at the world and society and ready to burn shit down out of ignorance, too. We can’t blame children for parroting the ignorance and bigotry of people they should be able to look up to as elders of our community but who are instead are crafting a TERF agenda and deliberately using children as mouthpieces and soldiers to keep their hands clean. We CAN choose to educate. The moment we resort to ‘kids today’ bullshit we sound like every other adult that we despised when we were that age. Yes, cite sources for our history and correct assumptions, but don’t act like a tool about it just because age and education have given you that wisdom. Look back in twenty years and you’re going to be thinking, ‘shit, I was such a smug little asshole at thirty, smacking down actual children looking for meaning and culture and identity on that hellhole website’. Be a guide, not a gatekeeper.

carryonmyfallencas:

emkaniff:

emkaniff:

yall: this celebrity did a bad thing

me: it be like that sometimes 

ok this post canceled due to recent events…I was talkin about some 26 year old pop star calling things “gay” in 2007 not a 50 year old hollywood producer who’s been actively pursuing 14 year old girls since 1976

a very important distinction. it’s one thing to fuck up, as all of us are apt to do, and it’s another thing entirely to be an abusive piece of shit with a history of sexual harassment.

virgodura:

Photographs from Cats (and their Dykes), eds. Irene Reti and Shoney Sien.

1. Beth Karbe, “Sister and Judy”
2. Tam Garson, “Tara and Phineas”
3. Cathy Cade
4. Beth Karbe, “New York City Cat and Susan”
5. Cathy Cade, “Jeri: Shalea and Omar, my New York and California babies, the constants in my life”
6. Cathy Cade, “Ours”
7. Caroline Overman, “Tee Corinne”
8. Beth Karbe, “Self-Portrait with Louise”
9. Susan Logan, “Marie and Tiffany”