“Imagine that you wake up in the morning and I hand you twenty-five very sharp forks. Every time you say something ableist to me, I take a fork away from you. When you are all out of forks, each ableist thing you say means I get to stab you really hard with a fork, and leave it stuck in your skin.
You are still talking. And so I take the last fork, and I shove it down your throat. This is called fork theory and it’s about how angry I am.”
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knitting in the dark 