The only reason “coming out” is still even a thing is because it’s presumed that people are straight until they tell us otherwise. “The Other must identify itself, or else it is decieving us” is a fucked up, dangerous idea.
Anon (via victor-the-richter)
Fuck, such a good point!
(via phiasmir)
It also feels very similar to this when revealing you have an invisible or mental disability. People are somtimes angry that they weren’t told right away as though it changes everything about you.
(via ericadawn16)
knitting in the dark 