this fandom is a gift
I love the process that took us from inference based to what we saw in a movie, to the “sorry-my-boyfriend-killed-your-dad” card idea. In fact, that continues to amuse, and then horrify, and then amuse me again and again. (I mean nevermind my boyfriend killed one of our old war buddies, even if he was kind of an asshole and he wasn’t a great dad to you, we’re still really sorry you know?)